This Lifestyle didn’t Happen Over Night

 

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I’m a little brat with a whole lot of sass but it comes with the territory. When you’ve gone through the ringer your whole life, you get that entitlement to tell people to shut the fuck up. I know I have a mouth on me and my parents never taught me this. But over time, when you country hop to learn about other people and cultures and language— You start to grow into your TruE self. I am going to be releasing A series of videos that were never published but I took them in my own privacy. This one was before my birthday and my epic closing presentation of TEDx. I don’t like drum and bass but you can tell by the sounds in the background, I am in a club but hiding in the bathroom. My therapist used to tell me to take more breaks in the bathroom to regroup. I never understood that this was a huge, detrimental factor to keep me sane. I would Tuck away to the ladies bathroom so that I could have a private moment with just myself. I never see people with disabilities in the club, almost never. I never see people who look differently in the music business. It’s always this face of falsification, but isn’t that social media? You can be anybody you want and nobody would really know the truth except yourself. This is the reason that I wear wigs on the weekends, so I can be anybody that I want.. I like to live split personalities because I feel more in tune with myself when I dress up to go to the club. I feel more connected with the industry when I break down the barriers to show that even though I’m a person with differences, I’m running this game. I have producers sending me music on a daily basis, music festivals that are requesting my presence for blogging and travel opportunities to take flight internationally. This lifestyle didn’t happen over night. This has been brewing my whole life because I’ve visualized it and I worked my ass off for it. So when you see me with my cute little wig on the weekends. Come up to me and say something; i’m gonna blow your mind. I’m not your average female, who wants to be anyways #bossbabe

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I’m a little brat with a whole lot of sass but it comes with the territory. When you’ve gone through the ringer your whole life, you get that entitlement to tell people to shut the fuck up. I know I have a mouth on me and my parents never taught me this. But over time, when your country hop to learn about other people and cultures and language— You start to grow into your TruE self.

I am going to be releasing A series of videos that were never published but I took them in my own privacy. This one was before my birthday and my epic closing presentation of TEDx. I don’t like drum and bass but you can tell by the sounds in the background, I am in a club but hiding in the bathroom. My therapist used to tell me to take more breaks in the bathroom to regroup. I never understood that this was a huge, detrimental factor to keep me sane. I would Tuck away to the ladies’ bathroom so that I could have a private moment with just myself. I never see people with disabilities in the club, almost never. I never see people who look different in the music business. It’s always this face of falsification, but isn’t that social media? You can be anybody you want and nobody would really know the truth except yourself.

This is the reason that I wear wigs on the weekends, so I can be anybody that I want.. I like to live split personalities because I feel more in tune with myself when I dress up to go to the club. I feel more connected with the industry when I break down the barriers to show that even though I’m a person with differences, I’m running this game. I have producers sending me music on a daily basis, music festivals that are requesting my presence for blogging and travel opportunities to take flight internationally. This lifestyle didn’t happen overnight.

This has been brewing my whole life because I’ve visualized it and I worked my ass off for it. So when you see me with my cute little wig on the weekends. Come up to me and say something; I’m gonna blow your mind. I’m not your average female, who wants to be anyways #bossbabe

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